Whose Life Are You Living: Resources

Free downloadable resources

Values Clarification


Step 1: The Long List
Step 2: Finding Your Core Five Values
Step 3: The Alignment Map

This exercise is grounded in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. ACT research consistently shows that living in alignment with clearly identified personal values produces measurable improvements.

14-Day Guided Path


You do not have to follow this path. But if you have ever started a book like this and quietly set it aside by day four, this is for you.

The 14-Day Guided Path gives everything in this book a gentle structure. Not a rigid programme, just a clear daily invitation so you always know what the next step is.

Observer Log


This is the most practical tool in this book. Where the chapters give you insight, the Observer Log gives you real-time data about your own patterns: the triggers, the automatic responses, the stories you tell yourself before you have even noticed you are telling them.
It takes just two to five minutes per entry.

Have you read the free chapter yet?

We move through life — working, choosing, reacting, consuming — without ever pausing to wonder how much of it we actually chose, and how much was simply handed to us before we knew there was a choice to be made.….

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